well - I just want to add - the bath/shower thing is tough - with the season change - here in PA - I am not melting down, but finding a few different issues since summer time - with the chill - I find that my skin is drier - especially after a shower - and that doesnt hit me until hours later - that is making it tough - I know that I could use lotions - but that is a whole other issue. The room temperatures gotta be right - the waters gotta be right - and its never a fun experience - even with me trying to keep everything in check. geeze even the bath fan is making different noise - from the weather change!!!! Ideas for when changing the diaper - heated wipes? another thing I did as a new mother - was distract him with - my pony tail!!! I used to think a great idea would be a diaperchanging hat - that the mother wears - like a mobil on a hat - to not be in the junk but that keeps the kiddo occupied while you quick change him. Tricky but my pony tail used to entertain my first one!