I definately don't understand the scoring, but the scoring isn't going to help your child, you will. So putting that aside it is for you to do what you need to. My son will not wear demin either, things have to be soft, he doens't like finger nails or toes nails cut. I get it all the time " he is just being a boy' WAHTEVER! His teacher told me that his issues with his clothes is probably because he is in 3rd grade and it becomes a fashion issue. WHATEVER AGAIN! I was like are you kidding, do you see how my kid comes to school. SHoelaces are always out of shoes because they will not stay exactly even, pockets are hanging out, won't let me brush his hair so it is always messed up. FIgure out the triggers, watch for clues to help you. If you can catch a meltdown before it happens that's a good thing, I was told by an OT once they get to that it takes a long time to get back on track. most people don't see these issues with my son either. Then they think you are nuts, well whatever, I know my kid and please explain to me why he has to wear headphones in a loud situation! DUH!!! Ugh, the heck with the other people. You do what you know and what you know your child needs!