My son is fine to go off and be with people, actualy I think he is too friendly! Maybe it is a problem with being able to express theerselves? I know this week has been a NIGHTMARE! Everyday he has been coming home from school crying! The name calling is amplified. FInally last night he was throwing his pencil while he was doing his homework, the tears just started flowing, this all started when his brother walked in the door from school. As soon as he came in his whole personality changed. He became aggressive, name calling, defiant, I took out his old punishment chart and takeped it to the door, tha treally set him off. This is just getting out of control! So then he sat on my lap and cried, he said he doesn't know what is going on, he doesn't know why he is so upset. The one thing was ( and this is important in their world) his brother won't let him play on the xbox! brother! So, we made it that he gets to go on for an hour a day. That made him happy,his big brother came out by him and gave him a hug. The rest of the day was BEAUTIFUL! They hung out together until bed time. I am sure it is just not the xbox, but for one night there wasn't any fighting. I try to tell my older son he needs to be different with him, things are amplified 100x's with him, he can't take being teased, you can't go past him and tap him, he takes it as you are hitting him and attacks, but siblings are siblings. So, we shall see how today goes. I am going to write the Social WOrker today, I told her he needs to be pulled more. HE hates music class, he used to like it when hey used intruments,but now with the singing he hates it. I was thinking about that and when we go somewhere for a bday he can't stand the singing by everyone of happy birthday. I wonder if he would wear ear plugs....I know he will put on the headphones, but I don't think he would do the earplugs. hmmmmmm