Your DD sounds like a plder version of mine.
My Daughter Lilly is 2.5, she will be 3 in Jan.
She will eat anything no food issues there,
she LOVES water
very huggy and wants constant movement, shes climbing over my legs and jumping around right now,
use to have to be restrained to sleep but now she just pulls a pillow over her head and passes out for hours.
very little speach, but she is making progress and she know quite a few ASL signs,
Her movements are very jerky she still dosnt truly run, but she has PT as her whole body movements are not connected very well she toe walks alot.
dosnt follow 1 step directions yet, but can put any puzzle together you can find and has been able to do that for over a year.
just entered a stage where she mimics everything her bigger brother does.
and just recently went from a if your not mom/dad i wont give you time of day To, ill hug a perfect stranger and try to crawl in their laps..
Loves to watch Signing times, Dora, and Diego
does many repetive actions
Turns into The HULK if you try to take her from what she wants to do.
slams her head into things HARD when shes upset.
takes her shoes/socks off and will walk barefoot on ice for 20minutes if we let her..
loves to be brushed, HATES her hair messed with.
sticky stuff makes her zone out, use to take sticks and jab them into herself and run it up and down her arms and legs.. thankfully shes left this behind since her PT added OT to her week.

there is SO much more about her that is super seeking.

her brother is a Avoider, and was REALLY bad for the 1st 3 years of his life, as a infant she sat in on his ILP since birth, they were born 21mth appart, and we were JUST learning about his issues when she was born.. everyone thought i was crazy becuse i KNEW something wasnt right with him. everyone even DRs said oh he just needs time.. hes fine, your crazy.
so he was JUST RXed when lilly was 2-3mths old. I thought she was going to be our "Normal" one, well here we are near 3 years later and shes WAY worst then Charlie EVER was, and has way less language or direction following then charlie did at this age...
her last Eval put her in the 11mth old for most of her skills... a few things like fine motor are above avarage, but she's always been great at Fine stuff from day one.

sorry so long ..LOL
I just found this place, its been hard, even hubby STILL thinks there is nothing REALLY wrong, and all this is my way of getting more attention