(05-17-2012, 09:30 PM)heatherv112506 Wrote: My daughter who just turned 2

There's a reason they call them the "terrible two's" and your little one has got a double dose of the stress of being two when you add in SPD. Doesn't make it any easier to deal with for either of you, but most two year olds have a fair number of meltdowns. The best you can do is make sure she gets enough sleep and enough to eat, because a tired, hungry kid can't cope with anything at all. Make sure you get a breather from coping once in a while (yeah, I know, easier said than done).

Try to offer her more active "fun" on days that seem risky - more time at the park, more playing her favorite game, or whatever makes her happiest. By consciously focusing on the fun you might be able to distract both of you from the hard part of the "two's".