Thanks Lynn and hello. I am so new to this and just learning whats what! He does like rough and tumble with his bro, very rough to but steers away from kisses and cuddles!! All kisses, unless he chooses, are to be placed on top of his head which I hate but hey ho! After school, I encourage a session on trampoline or with his punchbag but he is so keen to be off out and, should I say no, boy does he blow up!!! If his mates aren't in he takes it badly and gets angry at home. I just don't know what too do! Hubby, Arch and I played Jenga tonight but Arch just wanted to spoil the game by way of playing roughly. Couldn't understand as he had 2 parents attention but still wanted to upset it. Guess its a long road with many twists yet to come!!